David Clark

I've added 24 posts to our Recovery Voices this month, which means that the website now has over 220 pages. It's been a quieter time in relation to viewer numbers this month compared to last, but this is no surprise as I've had little time to publicise the website due to my spending lots of time with my son Sam who was visiting from the UK.

'All that he had been gifted, he gave to others. Those whom he saved; the colleagues he worked with; and the people who loved him will never forget his humility and self-sacrifice. That is how he will be remembered; not for the things he did for himself but for what he did for...'

'I needed to change myself, something you would never let me do. You made me isolate myself from all the other healthy relationships I could have and things I could be doing, with the promise that you could solve it all. And I know you can make me feel like you have all the answers, but you come at such a price and I know it is not worth it.'

Bruce Perry emphasises the importance of relationships: trauma can shatter human connections. 'As a result, recovery from trauma and neglect is also all about relationships—rebuilding trust, regaining confidence, returning to a sense of security and reconnecting to love.

'The new resource Recovery Voices digs into the lives and experiences of people who, in recovery themselves, spend time with others seeking, or in, recovery from addictions. In identifying themes, it draws out the rich diversity of experiences, showing how there is no single 'grand narrative' of recovery, no single 'recipe', just lots of...'

I write briefly about the relationship between our emotional experiences as children and our physical and mental health as adults. The pioneering research focusing on adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) was conducted by Dr. Vincent Felitti and his colleagues in the US in the 1990s.